One of my friends here on the sight started talking with a guy like this; they talked for about 6 months and then he came to meet her. They hopped in bed and he was gone; she was brokenhearted. When we talked, she said she was grateful that at least he was honest and told her the truth, that he was a sex tourist. I was shocked, so I asked her this question...

This man totally uses you and toys with your sincere heart for 6 months, comes to visit you, has sex with you and leaves after dinner, and you are grateful that he told you that is what he does!? I had more unkind words for her, but she agreed. Unfortuneatly, she left the site and is no longer interested in any type of relationship with any man, and she only 35-years old. It is very sad.

The subject of sex may be exciting for many, but talking about sex easily confuses the real issues. Many western men have the wrong concept of Slavic women...maybe all women, in general. They think you are all desperate for a man and will do anything; they intend to use that to their advantage.

When they are talking about sex that early in the relationship, they are fishing for certain answers; cut his fishing line and find someone who is interested in you and your child, if you have one. Also, if you have a child, remember this is the man you will be bringing into their life. Chose wisely; think for the future, not for the moment.