I absolutely agree, Nadya. That is why it is important for women to value themselves highly. That is why it is important for men to praise, encourage and instill confidence in his woman; not criticize. Sometimes previous wounds are hard to overcome; probably what you say should be true, Nadya, but it has been over a year and she still remains to herself. You are strong and self-confident; not all have your strength. Good to be alert and respond to those who do not have the same confidence; build them up with positive words. I am grateful for people like that, over the years, who reached out to me and were always positive. These people made a big difference in my life.

Tatiana used to say how much she disliked my complements toward women here on the site. She did not understand I was sincere and honestly trying to encourage others. It is a good thing to encourage one other; one never knows the value of a kind word to those who are starving... there's nothing wrong with that.