Really, Patrick!? Your notion that the women here are somehow looking for a "better life" is misguided. They ask you if you're a doctor because you are wearing scrubs (work clothes). They are trying to be polite and make conversation. If you think they ignore you because you're not a doctor, you're sadly misinformed; there is some other reason they drop you and move on.

Who told you these girls are all looking for a better life? You're a little misinformed, my friend. As your fellow countryman, who speaks English perfectly, I find your words somewhat insulting. Do you expect to catch a future bride using that kind of bait?

The problem is not with the ladies; the problem is with your unfortunate perspective. I've been associated with this site for several years. I have many friends here and have talked with hundreds of lovely women. Never once has anyone made me feel they were looking for a "better Life". On the contrary, they are NOT looking for a better "economic" situation, they are looking for love; genuine LOVE.

It is not good to presume. Most women here would rather stay in their own country and would move ONLY if they fell in love with a fantastic guy who would love them and treat them the way they deserve to be treated. Didn't you know that? Maybe you are not reading the actual playing field very well.

My personal situation clearly your notion. I fell in love and am engaged to a fabulous who is giving up an incredible career and life, to marry and live with me. I do not know why she chose me. She doesn’t need me; she simply wants to be with me because she loves me. She’s perfect, and I’m amazed that she would even consider me. She is more than I could have ever expected to find here in our country. She is so perfect, I’m surprised she chose me! Patrick, this is the attitude you need when approaching this dating site. The girls here are far above anything we have at home; that’s why we came here, right?

Son, if you’re going to make any progress, change your shirt and come down off your high horse, or you’re not going anywhere. Develop some humility and you will be shocked how many women will give you a chance. When they give you a chance, don’t blow it by having an arrogant attitude. I find that humility goes farther than you can imagine with these ladies. Remember, they don’t need us; we need them!