My lady is giving up an incredible career to come to be with me. I am honored by her and do not know why she chose me; she asks me why I chose her? Both man and woman must have humility toward teach other. Always good for each to think they got the better deal with their spouse. Always think of the other as better.
I have told my future wife that I would help her any way possible, if she desires a career. Very difficult for someone who has a successful professional career to come to America and take a lower position. I want her to be all she can be, or all she wants to be. I want to give her all the support she needs. If she wants to stay at home and keep our house, that is fine, too. Good relationships prosper because each want the best for the other.