I’ll add he’s not a friend. He’s a 35 year old American man living in Ukraine for half a year and has a new young GF every month. The main argument was that older Women 40+ will put a western mans money first before love and as an older man like myself looking for an older women, I’m stupid if I don’t think the same as him. I believe that for an older woman, like a man, love is one of the most important things she’s looking for.