Great question..... video chat for both men and women is the most important tool when you first meet to gauge how genuine one is. Men, even on sites like this encounter many email scammers. The one thing these scammers won’t usually do is video chat. They come up with many excuses not to. For men it’s very important that a woman is willing to video chat early on in their correspondence. There are forums where men discuss FSU dating and if a man tells a story where a woman is reluctant to video chat immediately, then he will be give advice to move on to another woman. When a man who’s just starting out in this adventure, he is given a list of procedures to follow and the first thing he is told is to find a reputable dating site like this and second is to move off the site to video chat ASAP if there is mutual attraction. The best thing a woman can do, if she’s interested in a man is to be proactive and ask to video chat before he asks. It will be a big green flag for him to move forward and see you as a potential partner in life.