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You put a very interesting question. Why are men from Western Europe "looking at the East" - for women? Let me do some remarks. First of all, likely nobody has got exact informations about the number of men, searching for Russian women. Relatively, it might be a small number, compared with the whole lot of all searching men.

Another aspect is the following: what I see is, that a certain amount of (German) men -especially those who are between 40 and 60 years old- are looking for much younger women. Eastern and Asian women might have some reasons to accept up to 10,15 or even 20 years elder men.
At the same time, German women do not absolutely prefer men with higher age as themselves.
If you see it critically, there are probably a lot of (German) men who want women, which, they suppose, do accept a more submissive (traditional) role in a relationship. May be, these men are not conscious about this. There are also simple and silly men, who prefer "fresh meat" of Asia.
May be, I see this too critical.

For some German men, feminist stamped women around 50 y/o do have a certain behaviour, which they describe as sort of masculine. Those women are -for what reason ever- being afraid to end up in a more subdued position in relationship; therefore, they want to play a more active or dominating role, which does not combine well with male behaviour.
Corresponding to their understanding of emancipation, a part of these women are not laying stress on dressing themselves in a cute and feminine way.

As for me, I saw many pictures of women on German singles dating websites, women between 50 and 60 y/o. As many women nowadays are much into drinking booze and into smoking, their skin is aging fast and getting ugly, and their faces are crinkling, among other disadvantages. When, at the same time, their behaviour is crude and rough, they are not really charming any more.
Men are enjoying charm and beauty of (Eastern) women. Their way of thinking, and their temper, as an unknown quantity, is a big challenge for (German) men. A challenge, which might lead to (more) happiness!

21.01.13

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