Hello Natalya,
I am sorry to say, but from reading your story, I think he was just not serious. His stories sound very far-fetched. A man who wants a woman will run though a wall for her and try anything to be with her. Do not let it upset you and just keep looking for the real man. Unfortunately there are scammers and players on this site on both sides. I recently started to correspond with a girl on the site who eventually told me she was actually using her friend's profile. And another wrote to me and sent me pictures. Pretty girl. Because they were pictures of Lera Gromova, not her! My advice to you and everyone is take a risk, heartache just means that your heart works and do not give up hope.