I think there could be reasons to meet in a neutral location. But if the main reason is that there is nothing to do, then likely forget him. As you said, is not the girl alone worth visiting?! And you live in Kiev! Lots to do there!
When I went to Kharkiv in Feb 2012, my girl was working days and I had to entertain myself until she was free in evening and weekends. Easy to go, explore, even in the snow and cold.