Yes, you right - about Man-To-Woman ration in WY. You are seconds nationwide, where males is more than females.
But in any cases, I believe you here is for a same reason as the others, is because you want best for yourself.

"31 years, I think that makes me qualified enough to comment on our (American) culture" - yes, you are qualified for this. I just bad wrong assumption, by looking at you sailor pictures and thinking, that it wasn't in USA.
And Tim, I know how may immigrants in here and I lived here for 14 years, I had Russian wife and we lived as a family, and have many American, Jewish and Russian people. But I can talk from myself as I'm American.
I love this country? it's great country and it's now MY country. But I still having Russian soul and therefore - I can compare HERE with THERE and make some conclusions - what it the difference.

Number of males per 100 females, according to 2012 U.S. Census estimates
1. Alaska 108.9
2. Wyoming 104.3
3. North Dakota 103.4
4. Nevada 101.7
5. Hawaii 101.7
National Average: 96.9