I wrote before. My elder daughter invited me to USA. I moved more then 3 years ago. Before I departed all my stuff by Ukrainian post office. They stolen all. I arrived to Colorado with my documents, 2 books with pneumonia and without knowlegde of English. My "daughter" threw out me from her house in mountains in the first night when I came and said that she hates sick people.
So children are different. In any case anyone needs to rely firstly for herself/ himself.