To Olga ,
Hello , very good questions.I will try to explain my motives , for my search.At this moment , I don`t have much , personal contact with ladies from Russia or other CIS countries.But I believe , that the women in these countries , have a more distinct way , to how a woman should behave and prsent herself.To present herself , which means , the way she dresses and her personal appearance.
Of course , in the Western countries , women also have a good way , to their appearance and the way they dress.So , there must be some other facts , which makes me search for a woman in this part of the world.I believe , that feminism , like we know it in our countries here,was not so much alive , some years ago , in your country.But as we can see , time changes , and with the modern technology and the better communication abilities ,women in your country (Russia), seem to want to adept, to what they see and learn , in other Western countries.
For some of these ladies , these are new vieuws , on how women in the West ,think and live.What vieuws , Western women have , on their way of living.What the main goals are, in the lifes of Western ladies.Many of them wants to build a career , and then only after that , think about , to start a family.I believe , that this is also , because the opportunities for them are great.It is also partly , because women here , have the same rights as men.They can have the same salary and benefits , like us men .
Let me make it clear , I think this is a good way.And I believe that women must have all these opportunities.If a woman has the capacities , I think , that she should have the job , which in the past , was only reserved for men.And we know , that this is happening.Look who is now , the head of the IMF.Who is reigning over Germany.Many women here , have high ranked positions.
Women here can do many small household jobs.Like sanding and painting the house.Or hammer a nail into the wall.They don`t need a man for this.Of course , not all women are like that.But you get the idea.Is this also some inheritance , of this feminism ideology ??
Maybe.So , what are we men , now supposed to do ??Just work , and provide all the financial means ??But like I said , women also have these possibilities.They have all the chances , to have a succesful career.Which means income , and it gives them a great feeling of independency.
And that is also , what they learn , when they grow up.It is all about , to be a succesful woman , with a good career , and being independant.Which is of course good.Thinking about a relation or building a family , is at the end of the list.Is that a good thing , I don`t know.
Do we men feel , that we are not needed ??Sometimes , maybe.
So , I think that in Russia and other CIS countries , women think more , about starting a family.But I am sure , that in time , when they will have all the benefits , and the same rights as men , their vieuws on life will change.When you will have the same salary , for the same job , as a man , you will become more independant.Which means more personal freedom and more possibilities.
Will this affect your way of thinking , about the other gender ??It can.
How will you look at us men , when in time , you will have the same rights , the same possibilities , the same jobs , the same chances to build a career ?? I wonder.
Personally , I want to find an Eastern European or Russian woman , because it is another culture.They behave more like a woman , and want to make their homes cozy and pleasant.At this moment , many of the Russian women, still see a man as a man.And he must take care , of all the manly work , in and around the house.Will this make me feel more manly ??Certainly not , but it will be nice , to know , that your partner , wants you to do these things.
And she can give her attention , to other matters.Like decorating the house.I believe , that is something , that you should leave to a woman.
First meeting , in real life , should be relaxed , pleasant and honest.I can bring a small present for her.Because I am a man , and she is the lady.I don`t expect her , to give me something.It is better to give , than to receive.
But the most important thing is , to be yourself.
Well , to develop the relation in real life.I cannot say , I don`t have this experience.But if you mean , to keep in contact , after the first real meeting.Well , you can make phone calls , send emails.Use MSN or Skype.Just be polite , and show your interest , and be honest.
Show respect and tell about yourself , your daily life.Or your other family members or relatives.About your hobbies.
The criteria , to make a choice , depends on some things.Some of them ,I have mentioned above.In essence , it is about the first impression.Secondly , the description in the profile , and third the way , she presents herself , in the pictures.
Now , how have I done that in my own pictures ??Well I hope good.But of course , that is for you ladies , to decide.
So Olga , I hope , that I could have made it , a little bit clear for you.Of course , this is just my own , interpretation.
Other men , may have other ideas and other vieuws , on this.
I wish you a nice day
Hello , very good questions.I will try to explain my motives , for my search.At this moment , I don`t have much , personal contact with ladies from Russia or other CIS countries.But I believe , that the women in these countries , have a more distinct way , to how a woman should behave and prsent herself.To present herself , which means , the way she dresses and her personal appearance.
Of course , in the Western countries , women also have a good way , to their appearance and the way they dress.So , there must be some other facts , which makes me search for a woman in this part of the world.I believe , that feminism , like we know it in our countries here,was not so much alive , some years ago , in your country.But as we can see , time changes , and with the modern technology and the better communication abilities ,women in your country (Russia), seem to want to adept, to what they see and learn , in other Western countries.
For some of these ladies , these are new vieuws , on how women in the West ,think and live.What vieuws , Western women have , on their way of living.What the main goals are, in the lifes of Western ladies.Many of them wants to build a career , and then only after that , think about , to start a family.I believe , that this is also , because the opportunities for them are great.It is also partly , because women here , have the same rights as men.They can have the same salary and benefits , like us men .
Let me make it clear , I think this is a good way.And I believe that women must have all these opportunities.If a woman has the capacities , I think , that she should have the job , which in the past , was only reserved for men.And we know , that this is happening.Look who is now , the head of the IMF.Who is reigning over Germany.Many women here , have high ranked positions.
Women here can do many small household jobs.Like sanding and painting the house.Or hammer a nail into the wall.They don`t need a man for this.Of course , not all women are like that.But you get the idea.Is this also some inheritance , of this feminism ideology ??
Maybe.So , what are we men , now supposed to do ??Just work , and provide all the financial means ??But like I said , women also have these possibilities.They have all the chances , to have a succesful career.Which means income , and it gives them a great feeling of independency.
And that is also , what they learn , when they grow up.It is all about , to be a succesful woman , with a good career , and being independant.Which is of course good.Thinking about a relation or building a family , is at the end of the list.Is that a good thing , I don`t know.
Do we men feel , that we are not needed ??Sometimes , maybe.
So , I think that in Russia and other CIS countries , women think more , about starting a family.But I am sure , that in time , when they will have all the benefits , and the same rights as men , their vieuws on life will change.When you will have the same salary , for the same job , as a man , you will become more independant.Which means more personal freedom and more possibilities.
Will this affect your way of thinking , about the other gender ??It can.
How will you look at us men , when in time , you will have the same rights , the same possibilities , the same jobs , the same chances to build a career ?? I wonder.
Personally , I want to find an Eastern European or Russian woman , because it is another culture.They behave more like a woman , and want to make their homes cozy and pleasant.At this moment , many of the Russian women, still see a man as a man.And he must take care , of all the manly work , in and around the house.Will this make me feel more manly ??Certainly not , but it will be nice , to know , that your partner , wants you to do these things.
And she can give her attention , to other matters.Like decorating the house.I believe , that is something , that you should leave to a woman.
First meeting , in real life , should be relaxed , pleasant and honest.I can bring a small present for her.Because I am a man , and she is the lady.I don`t expect her , to give me something.It is better to give , than to receive.
But the most important thing is , to be yourself.
Well , to develop the relation in real life.I cannot say , I don`t have this experience.But if you mean , to keep in contact , after the first real meeting.Well , you can make phone calls , send emails.Use MSN or Skype.Just be polite , and show your interest , and be honest.
Show respect and tell about yourself , your daily life.Or your other family members or relatives.About your hobbies.
The criteria , to make a choice , depends on some things.Some of them ,I have mentioned above.In essence , it is about the first impression.Secondly , the description in the profile , and third the way , she presents herself , in the pictures.
Now , how have I done that in my own pictures ??Well I hope good.But of course , that is for you ladies , to decide.
So Olga , I hope , that I could have made it , a little bit clear for you.Of course , this is just my own , interpretation.
Other men , may have other ideas and other vieuws , on this.
I wish you a nice day