Hi Peter , Well , reading some of the ladies` replies , I see that you have unleashed , quite some emotion here.I think , that I can understand , your feelings , at this moment. And I believe , that you are a bit disappointed , that you did not find this web site sooner.Spending 5 years , on sites , with unrealistic , and un-interested women ,is just a waste of time (and money). If there are so many Slavic people , living in Australia , why did they never told you , about this or other dating sites?? But as you probably know by now , there are bad sites , in every country.So , you need to be a bit cautious. The only problem is , that at first , you will not know , which site is oke. I hope , that you have had a good thought , about all this.I mean , you want to have a family. You know , that these women , expect that you , will take care of them and your children.You should understand , the impact , that it will have on your further life. Furthermore , some of tese ladies , do not want to leave their country.Are you willing , to go to live in their country ??? What sacrifices , are you willing to make , to let your dream come true ?? It is a first step , that you wish for family life and happiness.The second step , is the harder part. To be the main supporter for your family. This is , what is on these womens mind also.And it is right , that they think , like this!! An international and a long distance relation , will ask a lot of patience and courage. Determination and self confidence. If you believe , in this dream , then go for it.I only hope , that it will not take too much time. Anyway , I wish you , all the best of luck , to find that glimmering rainbow. Eric