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There may be a bit of confusion here.I don`t really understand your : " I am a doctor , I don`t know what is debt " .
This could mean , that you don`t have a debt , or that you don`t understand the English word , debt.
The word debt means , that I or someone else , or a government , has lent money , from another person or a bank.
This also means , that I , must pay back the loan with interest.
Many countries , lend money , from banks or other financial institutions.And , they should pay it back , within the time , that they did agree on , in the contract.
So , for my country , the money , that it owes , to other banks/financers , should not be more , than 3% of the total national income.Brussels rule.
Now to answer your questions."Why I am here" - > I am here , for the same reason , as you.Trying to find a suitable partner.And more specifically , I seek a partner , in Eastern Europe and in the CIS countries.
And just like many of the women here , I also check , on other dating sites.And to partly answer , your second question , I do consider , to relocate , to the country of my future wife.
But , that will depend , on certain criteria , that I don`t know , at this moment , because , I have not found her yet.
Things will become clear , when I know , in what country she lives.And what her wishes for the future are.
I am aware , that it is a big decision , for an EE woman , to leave her home town , family , friends and work.And to begin a new life , in a strange place.
With a man , who she may not know , completely.
Of course , it is the same for the man.He will not know , his new wife , through and through.Living and growing up , in different countries and cultures , has it`s challenges.
Which will make life , in a foreign country ,more disturbing , in the first few months , or years.
And when you start to know , each other better , will you still think , that you 2 are compatible ?
So , yes , many questions , and things to consider.But , he who does not dare , will not win.
Your second question : "Should my foreign wife , have to work?" - > In my current situation , my wife , will not have to work.To say it in other owrds , I will not force her , to find a job.
And , also very important , I will not see her , as a house maid either.
I understand , that the latter , is also a big issue , for some women.In the first place , she will be my wife and friend.
In the second place , she will be the person , who I can trust , and talk with , about all (interesting) topics.And family or relation matters.
In my country , the foreign wife , is not allowed to work or to find a job , unless , she has a temporary , or permanent , permit to stay.She may get , a temporary permit to stay , for 3 or 6 months (I don`t know exactly).Or maybe for 1 year.
And she must have it , evaluated , by the Immigration Service , after this period.When the conditions , for her , or her partner , have changed , she may loose the temporary permit.And she should leave the country then.
This also means , that if she had a jobe , she should quit it.You understand , that employers , are not keen , on these situations.It is also important , that she should speak and understand the native language.
When applying for a job , it is also important , if you understand , what people say.Communication , is important as well.
When she can speak and write English (fluently or moderately), this will also help her chances , in finding a job.
Because , I am thinking , to relocate , to my wife`s country , it is important , that I learn , and understand , as much , about the daily life , and the outlook on life , that these women , in EE and Russia have.
I already , know , many things , about , their mindset , and what , they consider , to be key issues.So , everything , that I can find , on the internet , or from what other sources , that is related , to life in CIS countries and in Russia , is good stuff , for me.
I am realistic enough , to know , that it will only be , just a tiny part , of what life in EE/Russia , holds for it`s people , and more , for the female population.
Understanding , their reason , why they seek , a foreign husband , is also , a major issue , for me.
Reading their advices , to others , and to other women , may give a glimpse , in what their goal is , seen from their cultural and traditional point of vieuw.
I really understand , that it is only , when you really live , in your wife`s country , and you can communicate , in her own language ,that you will see , what a really happy life is her for.
And what life means to her , and her family.Yes , I know , that family is the most important , in their life.They will do anything , to help their family.
I am very aware , of that!!!
So , I may say , that I am in a good position , to find a future wife , in EE.I understand the risks , and the financial hazards, that such an undertaking , may hold.
But only the future , will tell , some day , if I did make the right choice , today.
Eric
This could mean , that you don`t have a debt , or that you don`t understand the English word , debt.
The word debt means , that I or someone else , or a government , has lent money , from another person or a bank.
This also means , that I , must pay back the loan with interest.
Many countries , lend money , from banks or other financial institutions.And , they should pay it back , within the time , that they did agree on , in the contract.
So , for my country , the money , that it owes , to other banks/financers , should not be more , than 3% of the total national income.Brussels rule.
Now to answer your questions."Why I am here" - > I am here , for the same reason , as you.Trying to find a suitable partner.And more specifically , I seek a partner , in Eastern Europe and in the CIS countries.
And just like many of the women here , I also check , on other dating sites.And to partly answer , your second question , I do consider , to relocate , to the country of my future wife.
But , that will depend , on certain criteria , that I don`t know , at this moment , because , I have not found her yet.
Things will become clear , when I know , in what country she lives.And what her wishes for the future are.
I am aware , that it is a big decision , for an EE woman , to leave her home town , family , friends and work.And to begin a new life , in a strange place.
With a man , who she may not know , completely.
Of course , it is the same for the man.He will not know , his new wife , through and through.Living and growing up , in different countries and cultures , has it`s challenges.
Which will make life , in a foreign country ,more disturbing , in the first few months , or years.
And when you start to know , each other better , will you still think , that you 2 are compatible ?
So , yes , many questions , and things to consider.But , he who does not dare , will not win.
Your second question : "Should my foreign wife , have to work?" - > In my current situation , my wife , will not have to work.To say it in other owrds , I will not force her , to find a job.
And , also very important , I will not see her , as a house maid either.
I understand , that the latter , is also a big issue , for some women.In the first place , she will be my wife and friend.
In the second place , she will be the person , who I can trust , and talk with , about all (interesting) topics.And family or relation matters.
In my country , the foreign wife , is not allowed to work or to find a job , unless , she has a temporary , or permanent , permit to stay.She may get , a temporary permit to stay , for 3 or 6 months (I don`t know exactly).Or maybe for 1 year.
And she must have it , evaluated , by the Immigration Service , after this period.When the conditions , for her , or her partner , have changed , she may loose the temporary permit.And she should leave the country then.
This also means , that if she had a jobe , she should quit it.You understand , that employers , are not keen , on these situations.It is also important , that she should speak and understand the native language.
When applying for a job , it is also important , if you understand , what people say.Communication , is important as well.
When she can speak and write English (fluently or moderately), this will also help her chances , in finding a job.
Because , I am thinking , to relocate , to my wife`s country , it is important , that I learn , and understand , as much , about the daily life , and the outlook on life , that these women , in EE and Russia have.
I already , know , many things , about , their mindset , and what , they consider , to be key issues.So , everything , that I can find , on the internet , or from what other sources , that is related , to life in CIS countries and in Russia , is good stuff , for me.
I am realistic enough , to know , that it will only be , just a tiny part , of what life in EE/Russia , holds for it`s people , and more , for the female population.
Understanding , their reason , why they seek , a foreign husband , is also , a major issue , for me.
Reading their advices , to others , and to other women , may give a glimpse , in what their goal is , seen from their cultural and traditional point of vieuw.
I really understand , that it is only , when you really live , in your wife`s country , and you can communicate , in her own language ,that you will see , what a really happy life is her for.
And what life means to her , and her family.Yes , I know , that family is the most important , in their life.They will do anything , to help their family.
I am very aware , of that!!!
So , I may say , that I am in a good position , to find a future wife , in EE.I understand the risks , and the financial hazards, that such an undertaking , may hold.
But only the future , will tell , some day , if I did make the right choice , today.
Eric