Hi Anna , Well, you already have got some good advices.But there are some things , which are not looking good.After just 10 days , of communication , he already invites you , to come to him. And you say , that he is 30 years old.How do you know ??? Did he send you , a copy of his passport ?? And with a copy , you can also commit a fraude. He can put a picture , of his self , on the passport , from someone else , who is 30 years old. Furthermore , did he asked you , if you can speak English or Spanish ??And , if yes , did he offer you some alternatives , about the way , in which he will communicate , with you ??? I myself , would want to have , a real good conversation , when I would invite a woman , to my country/place of resident. Then there is the other question : did you asked him , to come to meet you , in your country ? And what did he reply ??? You should realize , that you will be alone , in a strange and unknown location. And not speaking some foreign languages.This will make things very difficult. Should you get in a problematic situation. This week (some days ago) , it was here on the news , that the Spanish police , had rolled up , a gang (human trafficking) , who were capturing and forcing (foreign) women , into prostitution. I heard a number , of about 400 women , who were spreaded across all of Spain (but I cannot say for sure). Or there were 400 members , in the gang. So , it is tempting , to take the invitation.But , think about the risks. Let him come to you , first!!! If he likes really you , he will do that.And if not , well , then move on Eric