Lara , Well there are different countries with different people.It is no secret that the times they are changing. Feminism has gotten hold of many individuals.Men and women. For the most part , feminism is still only very heavily established in the USA and other Western countries. And for sure , some persons have gotten the idea , that it is allowed , to say everything AND anything , on a first date. Wait , no , not even on a first date! Some want to talk about it , in the first correspondence !!! Yes , ideology has changed for the worse. Understanding that women in Russia and in the CIS countries , still have that respectful and honorable tradition , is something that Western men ,should learn. Not knowing the culture , the traditions , the vieuw on life and the merits of these people (women) , can and will lead to disaster (if it should come to a date). And if you have never learned to be a gentleman , you sure will not be one , when you visit EE and Russia. A high moral and understanding , is the least you should bring with you , when you come to visit these countries. Lara thank you for your support and your kind words. I wish you all the best also. Eric