Hi Ben , Yes I did notice that.My points were on the playing 20 questions / read a book simultaneously / play a game etc. I did say that I can send her flowers and chocolates.Would that not show that I think about her ? And when I send her money with Western Union ?What would she think ? I didn't say that all his 25 points were bad.Me personally will choose a smarter way to get the relation going ... But that is just me ... Eric