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Terry ,
Permit me to chime in , in your conversation.I don't pretend and I don't say , that I know everything.
But did you go to Ukraine with a Romance Tour or did you go alone.
While it is possible to find a good woman on a so-called social during the Tour , the odds are a bit slim.
You say that it is important for you , to "know" a woman in a very short time of correspondence.What do you mean with : "to know" ?
Sure she can/will tell you some things (about herself) or her life.But you should remember that you are still a complete stranger to her.
When you know /understand her culture and tradition , you may understand , that she is not going to tell you , everything about her person or her life in details.
She may give you just common or general information.
From this perspective , while you think that you may "know her " , going over there with this mindset is already starting out , on the wrong foot.
In general a traditional E European woman , will have a great deal of mistrust for foreigners.
Especially when she has met or dated other strangers before you.
And when the experience was not so good , she will look at you with different eyes.
Also remember that you only have 1 chance to make a good impression on her.
E European women who can speak English , may probably have had already some dates with foreigners.So understanding that you are the next in line , should put you even more on your guard.
And your possibilities to make "big mistakes" are very slim.She will compare your personality and your behaviour with the other dates.
So ask yourself , how can YOU stand out and make a good impression!
Understanding her tradition and culture , will let you interpret the "signals" , that she is sending , in a correct way.
Also to give a good interpretation , as to what she is telling you.
The last thing that you must do , is to ask the correct questions.
Even though you may feel , that you know her (well enough), you should understand which are right/appropriate questions to ask , on a first date.
And as important , you should be yourself and Always say the truth.
Be a gentleman and keep the conversation light and pleasant.
You are still on a first date with her , and she is not trusting you completely.
Permit me to chime in , in your conversation.I don't pretend and I don't say , that I know everything.
But did you go to Ukraine with a Romance Tour or did you go alone.
While it is possible to find a good woman on a so-called social during the Tour , the odds are a bit slim.
You say that it is important for you , to "know" a woman in a very short time of correspondence.What do you mean with : "to know" ?
Sure she can/will tell you some things (about herself) or her life.But you should remember that you are still a complete stranger to her.
When you know /understand her culture and tradition , you may understand , that she is not going to tell you , everything about her person or her life in details.
She may give you just common or general information.
From this perspective , while you think that you may "know her " , going over there with this mindset is already starting out , on the wrong foot.
In general a traditional E European woman , will have a great deal of mistrust for foreigners.
Especially when she has met or dated other strangers before you.
And when the experience was not so good , she will look at you with different eyes.
Also remember that you only have 1 chance to make a good impression on her.
E European women who can speak English , may probably have had already some dates with foreigners.So understanding that you are the next in line , should put you even more on your guard.
And your possibilities to make "big mistakes" are very slim.She will compare your personality and your behaviour with the other dates.
So ask yourself , how can YOU stand out and make a good impression!
Understanding her tradition and culture , will let you interpret the "signals" , that she is sending , in a correct way.
Also to give a good interpretation , as to what she is telling you.
The last thing that you must do , is to ask the correct questions.
Even though you may feel , that you know her (well enough), you should understand which are right/appropriate questions to ask , on a first date.
And as important , you should be yourself and Always say the truth.
Be a gentleman and keep the conversation light and pleasant.
You are still on a first date with her , and she is not trusting you completely.