O , yes , Tatyana , I get your point.But you , yourself have said , that women are (already) sexy .So , we men should not say it (again) to her /them.

And , I personally , will not write or text a woman , that she is sexy , when we (she and me) are just in the proces of getting to know each other better.

Of course , we both must find out , about our views on friendship or a relation as a couple.

In the first days / weeks of a relation , I certainly will buy her flowers or other gifts.

So , I know how to behave.

You may have had encounters , with other men , who asked you for bikini photos or have texted / written you other messages.

If so , then I understand , your way of thinking and how you may perceive , other or all(?) men.

But I can assure you , that there are also men , with better /higher standards ...

And you may like them ... eventually