Hi Helga, I would like to answer all, and surely I will answer at other, but I chose you because you are a woman who has the most sour and negative judgment, and many women confirm. I like to talk with those who have this strong determination. 

I have proof that the aspect that has made a great impression is that Gino and Elena have had intimate relations ... We could avoid this "special private", but instead we were right to mention it.

My humble opinion: You say, before he was "fun" (Helga this is your term, I only repeated ..) then he started to have doubts ... This reasoning describes the female universe unwise, unable to choose, and "succubus " of man .... I don't agree! ... Womens are most valid, and clever ....

In your opinion a woman can have intimate relations only because the man promise her a marriage .... OMG as if she were a goods for change .... but this conclusion is speculative, is a "mental arithmetic", is commodification of women and not a her free human expression ... I like to think that a clever woman, that meet a man who respects her, that listens her, that is kind to her .... in a few words that he make "feel good" her .... it is natural choice that "makes love" with him (this is the right term...) regardless of tomorrow .... she must trust his feelings (the same for him....), he must say "YES" or to say "NO" freely, without thinking about anything else ...

How many married men, or boyfriends.... mistreat their women, or they beat them? They are entitled only because the have married? No I do not think ..... No I do not think ..... 

I think this question there is no solution, I anticipate that he's not want to leave her ...  then they will go forward .... "there is no certainty of tomorrow" ..

for me it was a pleasure talking with all .... I will try to answer at all....

Ciao Helga, sono ammirato di quante risposte ho avuto, ma è giustificato dall'importanza dell'argomento.

Vorrei rispondere a tutte, e darò altre risposte, ma ho scelto te perchè sei la donna che è ha il giudizio più negativo. Mi piace parlare con chi ha un parere opposto al mio.