Hello, Andy, 

I do think, you see American woman now , not Russian one , writing these lines. Because personal(private) life for the women from Russia is much more important than successful career. The woman desires to be beside her right man, first of all. Why speaking about our parents for(I mean, in this sense)? Unfortunately they will pass away. We all have good contact with families by Skype, calls , E mails.... Good parents wish happiness for their adult daughters.  Of course, a flat has to be remain in Russia.  At least, till Permanent Residence,s getting.  Green card? Is it one year or just a little more to have chance to be in Russia?  I do not think, it is serious moral obstacle.  All difficulties of adaptation step back with a beloved and loving the woman, a man...