If you register on one site as age 34, and register another site as age 44, someone may worry. Also if you register on 1,000 sites, someone may worry that there is something hidden because how can a person manage so many contacts. I had a acquaintance in Italy who was writing to a girl on a dating site and then saw her profile in an 'escort service' for 500 euro. But she was very young, and I do not think it is common for the mature girls.
I see no problem for girls who register on multiple sites. However, I do not stalk multiple sites, and if the man is a stalker, then you already know what to do. If the man worries that you are on two sites, and spends much time and energy looking for you on the internet, it may indicate a deeper problem of neurosis, and hopefully you already know what to do in that circumstance. On this site, I will stop writing if it is always very short terse replies and no curiosity to develop. Girls never ask why so nobody loses, and girls will suddenly stop also. Once a girl on this site, sent me a photo and on her tee shirt was written "Good bye", but this is all the notice given. I think it is absolutely better when the girl has Facebook profile showing normal girl in normal life. Sometimes I was invited to mail.ru profile, but it is too difficult. I think serious men would expect Facebook, but I do not know for certain.
I do not think abrupt cancellation is derived from chauvinist instincts or other failures of character. It can be many reasons.
If you are curious, and tell about the folklore of your city, or the interesting things, the man will participate. If he does not participate after some exchanges, then ok; no point to wonder because the time for curiosity has ended. There is no guarantee that men, even from educated and refined circles, will engage with proper etiquette.
I see no problem for girls who register on multiple sites. However, I do not stalk multiple sites, and if the man is a stalker, then you already know what to do. If the man worries that you are on two sites, and spends much time and energy looking for you on the internet, it may indicate a deeper problem of neurosis, and hopefully you already know what to do in that circumstance. On this site, I will stop writing if it is always very short terse replies and no curiosity to develop. Girls never ask why so nobody loses, and girls will suddenly stop also. Once a girl on this site, sent me a photo and on her tee shirt was written "Good bye", but this is all the notice given. I think it is absolutely better when the girl has Facebook profile showing normal girl in normal life. Sometimes I was invited to mail.ru profile, but it is too difficult. I think serious men would expect Facebook, but I do not know for certain.
I do not think abrupt cancellation is derived from chauvinist instincts or other failures of character. It can be many reasons.
If you are curious, and tell about the folklore of your city, or the interesting things, the man will participate. If he does not participate after some exchanges, then ok; no point to wonder because the time for curiosity has ended. There is no guarantee that men, even from educated and refined circles, will engage with proper etiquette.