Even today I can show you a beautiful lady on this site.  And you put her name into Google search and appears also her entry in mail.ru site, it is a free Russian site providing email. And her profile on the RU site shows many happy photos with her husband.  Some photos on this site are duplicates of photos on the other site, but she has removed her husband.  And on the husband's page on the RU site, he has many photos of their holiday in the Crimea.  He annotates the photos to tell how he loves his wife.   And honestly, she is stunning.  And as said, I can show her profile even today  

I sent her email explaining  "I will not tell your secret.  You have a handsome husband who loves you by all evidence.  He is athletic and strong with handsome bearing. You have a beautiful child with him.  And why are you on a dating site as a single woman?  Your secret is safe, and I only seek to understand the rationale for this duplicity.  This is my private email address for your reply.  " 

And she explains that her husband is aware.  She enjoys to receive flowers and chocolates and fur animals. It is like her hobby. Flowers are pretty and chocolate is good. This arrangement seems ok with me, and I like her for her honesty and candor. And she is clever! She sent her Facebook page, but we did not become friends on that site.

But this is only me who accepts it. Some men may worry about it. And this situation may prompt men into searching the net to discover more information.