Hi Chris. I cannot speak for Ben but can for myself. I bounced off some of the comments Ben Has made and ive already put this is English Humor.

Ive already asked in another post is age difference important?

If i was bullying about age difference would I admit to both my parents having a 20 year age gap and also put the difference of ages between the lovers in the novel from where I get my screenname??

... I also fully understand your from Canada same has our good friend Paul who openly boasts about how hes retired on a Canadian Government Benifit Handout which are most likely paid for with taxes YOU pay out your wages and when you fill your nice convertable car (like on your pictures) with fuel...

My son is 17 and has Aurtism. My mothers also 86 and Blind Incontinant with Dementure!!! so I am not here to Bully Disabled People or due to age prefference.

However Mr Edmontons retirement Margaritas in Canada may be a luxuary in parts of Eastern Europe I know girls who probably earn in a week what some of us earn in a hour or two!

But that dont make It right to boast youv got It so good when other have not!!!

My above referance aint a slur on slavic women Its factual from people i know in Eastern Europe.

Moving forward to age difference.... If someone is 48 and speeking a 18 year old (Hugo) or Eric 70 looking for 28 year old Thats there choice!!!!

Again, however Ben lives in a good area of England and if these prefurances was in England in a public forum It wouldnt be looked upon kindly.i can assure You ..

I used to live in a very English seaside town where a friend Of mines teenaged daughter was involved in sexual intercourse with a man younger than Hugo and a family member attacked this man and the man spent several weeks in hospital eating semi-solid foods and recoving from his nasty injurys. Which i would not wish on anyone (They was realy bad)

Im sure theres mothers in here who can forgive abit of satire humor and maybe Bens post is over the top but without getting personal you never know If Ben dont have a friend or family member whos been a victim of rape or other things bad.

Ben is a educated man who is not a bully either but Has strong views on this subject just like some mothers may have too like i say i cant speak for him however i reply including him Has You refur to „You two”

I know in Ukraine domestic abuse is in part accepted against women... i dont want to turn this humor post into a defence about bullying however If You have followed several post You will see Where Its leading on from...

Furthermore in past myself and others including women have been charictor assasinated by people acting like Wolves in packs and sometimes you have to let It slide!!!

The section is humor and the sub section is satire!!! If You think im obsest or a bully thats your opinion but im sure in our nice houses and cars we are all big enough to stand upto each other where others who have to read and look at our Western Arrogance at times are not!!!

I will summerise.... If old men dont use the forum to order teenagers..... or people on benifits dont gloat about Unlimited Margaritas which made the butt Of the joke he needs cocktails on a drip A.K.A. cocktail DBMI&AMS&Canada dry joke we can all get on just fine!!!!!!

You dont know me, I dont know you but you seem a smart young man learning Russian and from your profile one of the normal male minority in here in a forum of few men.

Im more than happy to respect You If You respect me!

Thank You for your comment which ive now adressed Dave