Ok here goes!!! My opinion about other men’s opinion then my opinion to round it off....
Bens opinion.... the best because it’s a man’s opinion thinking like a man. Ben has a history of speaking his mind and sometimes dwells on things he feels strongly about however you asked for a man’s view and this answers 100% right if you like Ben or not it’s irrelivent... personally I know he’s one of the good guys!!! But don’t always come over that way!!
Christian I like the guy and he has some valid points here, however the answer is thinking like a woman and telling you women what you want to hear. I’m not calling Christian has this may also be what he believes. 35 likes 0 dislikes is because it both politically correct and what a woman wants to hear with Christian well and truely sat on planet Venus (women from Venus men from mars reference)
Hugo from other posts you will see I’m not his biggest fan, however I understand women looking for lifelong commitment, but 3 years for internet dating ain’t actually that bad probably above average for internet relationship time scale! (Has long as the girl was of a mature & legal age!!! ) reference to his 18/28 age criteria -3 years he was with this girl!!!
Demitry.... fair comment!!
My view.... when a man or a women first messages each other it depends what the two peoples view is on nude pictures or bikinis...
in 2018 to some people anything goes... others will just block!!!
It depends where the conversation goes and how comfy you are with each other...
I’ve had relationships where I’ve seduced the woman, I’ve met a woman who’s seduced me from the first second we met!! life is interesting but not always black and white and don’t believe what you hear on internet or media... or in a forum!!
Sex is personal between the two people involved.... same with sexual pictures....
what I will say is if you did decide to send nude pictures never send with face and body parts has it could end up anywhere...
A penis, breasts or a vagina on there own can be anyone’s and won’t incriminate you or expose you to the world on the Internet
that’s if you do indeed decide to send them out... your choice it’s called free will!!!
Is a 37 year old woman a child or a grown up?? When her man asks for these pictures does she say no because she’s not comfortable with her body or deep down not comfortable with her man? But in denial? If she was in a sexy mood would she send? Some people send openly some send and regret later!!
Some women would if in the mood if the man had the skill or knowledge to get her in such a mood!! Im not judging..
I’m asking you to ask yourselfs this question!
Can she decide if to send nude pictures or does she need to deliberate with women??? in a woman’s chat?? she don’t know the answer? On July 17, 1986 , the world discovered that there was “no sex in the USSR” on TV now were in 2018 times have changed..... now teenagers are going to Kazantip with there mothers aprovel!!! Some people are blinkered others are not ...
Ukraine declears freedom is our religion and to some freedom includes sexual freedom..
in Ukraine women march for sex workers rights others are part of FEMAN women’s rights against female exploitation ... also consider Swinging.... Dogging.... BDSM...... and other none vanilla acts...
I’ve no idea how sexually advanced the men or women in here are or there knowledge in the bedroom and how that will playout in a marrage or a relationship....
only a fool would try and dictate the rules.... If there is a wrong or right about sending nude pictures or bikini pictures.....
get to know your partner don’t judge him or her
... and don’t talk about him to other women...
unless women in here are married there not your best friend there not here to get you a husband your here to find your own ....
like at nightclub you not look for a man for women you not know
you look for your own man!!! ....
and only a bigger fool would say a man who asks for bikini or nude pics is not a serious man.... that’s a assumption not a fact!!!!
this is a general overview....
would I ask for nude pictures or bikini pictures depends who I’m asking...
the situation... our dynamic.... the person... the level of chat... how much I know her...... if me and a women are looking at marriage and she can’t be open with me at some point what relationship have we got?
Do I want my woman to share my bed if I meet her YES do we cook for each other YES do we respect each other YES....
Has a rule I don’t send or ask for nude pictures!!!!
Have I sent before and has a woman asked me for this before the answer is YES every situation is different
sorry I couldn’t answer in Rose Tinted Spectacles 👓
I respect and hope I’ve not offended anyone has that’s not my intention with this reply... you asked for my view and you’ve got it!!!
I’m also upvoting the post because it’s a good debate along with Ricks I’ve enjoyed today also...
Bens opinion.... the best because it’s a man’s opinion thinking like a man. Ben has a history of speaking his mind and sometimes dwells on things he feels strongly about however you asked for a man’s view and this answers 100% right if you like Ben or not it’s irrelivent... personally I know he’s one of the good guys!!! But don’t always come over that way!!
Christian I like the guy and he has some valid points here, however the answer is thinking like a woman and telling you women what you want to hear. I’m not calling Christian has this may also be what he believes. 35 likes 0 dislikes is because it both politically correct and what a woman wants to hear with Christian well and truely sat on planet Venus (women from Venus men from mars reference)
Hugo from other posts you will see I’m not his biggest fan, however I understand women looking for lifelong commitment, but 3 years for internet dating ain’t actually that bad probably above average for internet relationship time scale! (Has long as the girl was of a mature & legal age!!! ) reference to his 18/28 age criteria -3 years he was with this girl!!!
Demitry.... fair comment!!
My view.... when a man or a women first messages each other it depends what the two peoples view is on nude pictures or bikinis...
in 2018 to some people anything goes... others will just block!!!
It depends where the conversation goes and how comfy you are with each other...
I’ve had relationships where I’ve seduced the woman, I’ve met a woman who’s seduced me from the first second we met!! life is interesting but not always black and white and don’t believe what you hear on internet or media... or in a forum!!
Sex is personal between the two people involved.... same with sexual pictures....
what I will say is if you did decide to send nude pictures never send with face and body parts has it could end up anywhere...
A penis, breasts or a vagina on there own can be anyone’s and won’t incriminate you or expose you to the world on the Internet
that’s if you do indeed decide to send them out... your choice it’s called free will!!!
Is a 37 year old woman a child or a grown up?? When her man asks for these pictures does she say no because she’s not comfortable with her body or deep down not comfortable with her man? But in denial? If she was in a sexy mood would she send? Some people send openly some send and regret later!!
Some women would if in the mood if the man had the skill or knowledge to get her in such a mood!! Im not judging..
I’m asking you to ask yourselfs this question!
Can she decide if to send nude pictures or does she need to deliberate with women??? in a woman’s chat?? she don’t know the answer? On July 17, 1986 , the world discovered that there was “no sex in the USSR” on TV now were in 2018 times have changed..... now teenagers are going to Kazantip with there mothers aprovel!!! Some people are blinkered others are not ...
Ukraine declears freedom is our religion and to some freedom includes sexual freedom..
in Ukraine women march for sex workers rights others are part of FEMAN women’s rights against female exploitation ... also consider Swinging.... Dogging.... BDSM...... and other none vanilla acts...
I’ve no idea how sexually advanced the men or women in here are or there knowledge in the bedroom and how that will playout in a marrage or a relationship....
only a fool would try and dictate the rules.... If there is a wrong or right about sending nude pictures or bikini pictures.....
get to know your partner don’t judge him or her
... and don’t talk about him to other women...
unless women in here are married there not your best friend there not here to get you a husband your here to find your own ....
like at nightclub you not look for a man for women you not know
you look for your own man!!! ....
and only a bigger fool would say a man who asks for bikini or nude pics is not a serious man.... that’s a assumption not a fact!!!!
this is a general overview....
would I ask for nude pictures or bikini pictures depends who I’m asking...
the situation... our dynamic.... the person... the level of chat... how much I know her...... if me and a women are looking at marriage and she can’t be open with me at some point what relationship have we got?
Do I want my woman to share my bed if I meet her YES do we cook for each other YES do we respect each other YES....
Has a rule I don’t send or ask for nude pictures!!!!
Have I sent before and has a woman asked me for this before the answer is YES every situation is different
sorry I couldn’t answer in Rose Tinted Spectacles 👓
I respect and hope I’ve not offended anyone has that’s not my intention with this reply... you asked for my view and you’ve got it!!!
I’m also upvoting the post because it’s a good debate along with Ricks I’ve enjoyed today also...