Thank You for your comments.. photos are not important except for initial contact once two people bond most people aint shallow so can see past looks alone! A picture or many pictures is personal choice after initial contact i send more when i feel a woman worthy and not just a picture collector. Women here also chose and won't agree to any man with good income if something else doesn't fit for example his appearance, (people i want to know i will prove my worthyness to) many would prefer to stay alone in such case. If many young and beautiful women write to you it doesn't mean they are all serious anyway, so it's a wrong impression that man can look whatever he likes when there are few princes and so many princesses. (I put in effort and get Good comunication with the people i want to comunicate with) By the way Bronte and Charles Dickens books and movies are the best, read that during my school years. (I agree) Also what do you think should a woman do if she has a child and can't leave him alone, there is nobody else to look after a child, should the woman travel with a child and take him on all dates? Doesn't matter if she has to travel or to meet in her own city the child will be always with her, so there will be nothing romantic going on due to the presence of a kid. Or how this problem should be solved? The situation with a child Has to be explained to a man in great detail.... contact needs to be over Time and trust gained... a man should provide a apartment with multi-bedrooms If You meet... You need to make It clear You and your child are one item and You aint looking at being a test-drive.... i am not God after this i cant Tell You the results other than Its better than being just a mother!!! You need to be able to be a woman too!! (My opinion... this not right for everyone) Women have met my children!! I teach my children now 17 and 18 to be social.... im proud of my children