Sorry I thought I read 29 somewhere... my mistake
You are right I don’t know the situation however once you bring a relationship onto forum it’s doomed and dysfunctional! Example was Vicky left after public complaints about her husband has she self banned herself by default from happy couples has she tell everyone problems. You say this relationship is over and you tell others to be careful but you admit all the signs was there but you choose to ignore them

You are worth more but not if you choose the wrong men. I am also guilty of this too but I am much older than you. Location you have and other positives should making finding a man who is stable not so complicated I hope you learn from this bad situation
I disagree! money in a relationship is important has one has to provide a family life away from poverty to bring up children! However it’s only important if there is love understanding stability trust and care and affection. It’s like me saying beauty isn’t important. I like to think I have brains and meeting a woman with good beauty is important for the genetics of future children and generations

There needs to be balance if looks and money isn’t important has well has the other things I mention why you not look for local man and join international dating... let’s be real everything’s important some things more than others