First, let me say I'm sorry you had a bad experience Oksana. The heartache that comes from spending so much time, energy, and emotion on writing, Skype, planning a meeting, etc. and then having that all disappear, is emotionally draining.

From what you described though, it sounds like this man was interested in you. Not to be crude but there are easier and cheaper ways to just find sex. If that was the only thing he wanted, I don't think he would have gone to all the trouble of building a virtual relationship with you and then paid for both of you to travel around.

People (men and women) value sex in a relationship in their own way. Many men (and women too I'm sure) want to make sure they are "sexually compatible" with any future partner. A marriage where one partner is left wanting sexually would probably have issues sooner or later. I'm certainly not advocating that women should have sex right away when meeting a potential suitor, but I AM saying that some men will want to explore that part of the relationship (or at least talk about it) before moving further ahead. Whether that's "right" or not, is always debatable.

It's possible that after your night of intimacy, this man decided not to move forward for whatever reason; though, in my opinion, he should be a MAN and tell you versus simply disappearing. Either way, I wish you better luck in the future Oksana.