That makes sense, Yana, especially if the two people are meeting from a dating site versus something like a tourism website. There might be underlying expectations that one or the other does not share.

Still, I would gladly take the opportunity to actually meet and speak with anyone from the forum. After spending time here and reading everyone's thoughts, you start to feel like you "know" the person behind the profile photo/words. It would be more like having coffee with a friend I think.