Women who take "initiative" there are maybe 5%, not more. But if they are on a dating site i don't understand the lack of involvement... men whom i know using this site notice the same trend. and no we are equal, nothing should be "deserved"... just be more open.. coming here to widespread good photos good description but unable of any normal discussion, i don't see the point. By the way i can also understand that women - unlike men- receive many letters daily but it's not an excuse...