No, not permanently of course. But having a look and "admiring" is nothing bad. it is everything but offending for the woman and not pervert at all. A woman who is feminine but not feminist is the ideal thing. i think it is denying what a man is to forbide him to look at a woman. Women remain cold and indifferent to keep distance because of course men are all dangerous monsters, they don't notice men (unless the man is tom cruise, just see here who added a collection of men models) and don't care about but we are not "made" like women. My eyes are shining when a woman caught my eyes, it is not about beauty but about what she widespreads, her own charm. I want to know what kind of person she is, if it matches to your first impression. and what is her human value, her qualities. But going towards her will be considered as an "attack" and you will be pushed away. Here we are on a casting only, not for discovering who the person is, the woman doesn't care about it at all (who reads profile? 5%) and doesn't really discuss, i can prove it with dozens of "chats". And on a dating site they are here for meeting and finding normally and we face this problem, so what should it be in "real life" where they don't seek anything.. good luck.. I started a discussion with a gold member woman, some exchanges, she disappeared out of nothing for no reason. One more time. So now i ended to waste my time with time wasters. Generally speaking the woman cares about her first of all, with her high level criteria and think about her needs which can (should) be fulfilled by a man (he should be like this, like that...), choosing the number that will be convenient for her and if not ok, it will be an other one and the game is going on. Anyway, they have choice and online stock is full. Most women here registered to test their popularity and see how many men will be at their feet. Nothing more. Someone talked about slavs beauties, my opinion is they have nothing to give because they are too focused to love themselves for giving something to someone else. They love their mirror and themselves first, just see their collection of photos..