As I 'm never far away, here is an update ( my own opinion and still the origin of this post ) Not yet checked the said "local" dating sites. And no, "strength" or "reliability" have never be a social critieria/idealization in any society when dealing with man/women relashionship . This is/seems the current expression of a social conversion/facing when dealing with modernity in some European region . That is. . ... and I'm wondering what is means in a dating view. Internet caricatural explanation may have some deep or hidden reality. I'm personally completelly aware of what the true feminism movment is in the long term and not really subject to its current pace counter discourse and weakness. I'm also not metro sexual and proud of all my viril attributes :^)