Its not a matter of money or finance....believe me just to get any visa to sponsor any woman or her child (ren these docx are required in grest great detail up to 15 ys past plus moneys and other thing....I agree it should be the same except in cases on deadbeat dads. These men dont contribute but somehow now see a need to use it to isolate or keep his ex under his thumb. AND..as for finding a woman with no child...how can I expect my future bride to one day love my as her own if I will simply disallow myself to choose a woman with children. I want a completr family and look forwsrd to the addition of TWO OR 3 TO MAKE A FULL HOME... home full of love!