Dear Andy.

Perhaps you are in your post mean younger women. But I decided to write because I am a mother of a teenager, which is 16 years. First, I absolutely do not interested in silicone lips, or silicone breast. As they say,  God is not offended me.  So I for natural beauty. If some women have silicone, it is their right and their problems. They say, some men even like silicone.  

Second, I also do not understand women who cheat men if  they have children. Furthermore, to me as a mother, it is difficult to understand a woman who is for the sake of a foreign man, not only lying about their children, but even leave them in his homeland. And she goes to the man.

I also put it mildly, do not understand women and men who hide their true age and posted on the site  photos of 10-year-old.But most of all I was outraged when men for many years, "Looking for soulmate." But in fact, he is not going to change anything in his life. So he just raises their self-esteem and fun to life was not monotonous.

Finally, as a mother and as a woman who  nothing to hide in a profile, I want to say the following. I do not communicate with men of your age and men over 60 years old. I'm looking for a man my age. When a man writes to me the first letter, I'm in my first answer to him writing that I do not just have two children. But my youngest child is living with me. And he will live with me, yet become independent.

Guess, what kind of reaction on half of men after? Some men write that they have only one bedroom.  Some go in English. I mean without explanation.  I become  for  them not so attractive, smart and sexy.   And you say that all men are not against  children of woman.

But I am a mature woman and quietly perceive it. Because I understand, these men do not need me. A real man, if he loves. and he will take my children. And even think how to help my mother, who will remain here,  if I leave.

And more young women find it difficult to accept the fact that some men have only one bedroom. So they hide their children. Although I do not understand their naivety which borders with stupidity. Because the foolish hope that is possible make a man love a woman to such an extent,  that he will accept unconditionally and her children over time. And even the man will respect her more, because she hide before time their children.

I do not know, maybe there is such a skillful of women. But while there are cases,  even a sophisticated woman  without children ,  man no hurry to take in wife for years.

In short, a white lie, does not work here.But to call for honesty, both sides here meaningless.