As a man, I would like to give you my point of view and what problems I'm facing.

I'm on this site only for a few days, but already meet a woman witch I'm very interested in. We are chatting on a daily base and I don't know yet where this leads to. But I want to get to know her and I want to focus on her.

I got a few messages from woman who are interested in me. Most of them do not fit my needs and I send them a polite rejection and tell them honestly why I'm not interested. I think this is a acceptable behavior from my side. But yesterday a woman contacted me and she is just as interesting for me as the woman I already chatting with.
And here comes the serious problem. If I'm chatting with both, it will feel like cheating and it would be some kind of. If I'm telling both the truth, they both will probably turn away, because of lack of appreciation or the fear to not become the chosen one. If I tell the second that I'm already chatting with an other woman, she will surely turn away, because no woman want's to be "2nd choice". So, what is the best solution for a situation like this?

Most man just turn away in silence because they think it is less hurtful. Truth is, you will always have situations in life where you have to disappoint someone. In my opinion a man should have the spine to face such a situation. And I also think it is better to know the causes of disappointment, than standing alone with a hand full of questions. It is not possible to take away the disappointment, but it is easier to handle if you know the truth. And I think this counts on every gender.