it seems yes .. Because can be a big conflict in the end .. A woman will say about need to pay for language courses, for.. I dont know.. - child dentist right now, will ask to be at home with family for to do home affairs, or just spend family time, visit school for talk with other parents about situation X and so on. But in the response - forgive me, I do not earn so much, I cant because I dont know and I am not interested, but I can teach you to dance a break -dance .. it all looks like parallel worlds..