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It is primal instinct.
If a man is talking to a woman overseas I wouldn't think sex is the primary reason; it would be easier to find local girls for just sex (and cheaper!).
I would not dismiss a man because of his interest in sex. My advice would be to give him subtle hints that you would want to please your committed love. Only use subtle and few hints though, do not talk about it too much. Instead I would politely attempt to re-frame the conversation on more appropriate topics for the start of a relationship.
If a man is truly interested in you he will recognize this and discuss other topics you find more suitable. This will also show you signs of if he respects you or not.
Just understand Men's primal instinct is one of a hunter.
To ease this, tell them you are interested in sex and believe it is a responsibility of a partner to satisfy their partner but that it is not a appropriate topic in the start of a courtship.
American men are used to women using sex as a weapon or tool to get what they want. Often when American men marry American women, the woman begins to withhold sex and uses it to manipulate their husband. Some men might be trying to see if you will be like this. They are scared you will have no interest in sex. If you ease their worry I believe they will start discussing more appropriate topics.
I hope this helps, I know the translator is bad.
Good luck...
ABSTRACT: I believe men talk about sex because they are trying to see if the girl will be interested in sexually satisfying them. It is primal instinct for man to think of sex early in courtship. ADVICE: Ease their worry but do not give them too much talk about sex, simply acknowledge the importance of sex in a committed relationship. OBSERVE how they respond, if they continue to obsess about sex, move on. If they show interest in the topic you then bring up, smile!
If a man is talking to a woman overseas I wouldn't think sex is the primary reason; it would be easier to find local girls for just sex (and cheaper!).
I would not dismiss a man because of his interest in sex. My advice would be to give him subtle hints that you would want to please your committed love. Only use subtle and few hints though, do not talk about it too much. Instead I would politely attempt to re-frame the conversation on more appropriate topics for the start of a relationship.
If a man is truly interested in you he will recognize this and discuss other topics you find more suitable. This will also show you signs of if he respects you or not.
Just understand Men's primal instinct is one of a hunter.
To ease this, tell them you are interested in sex and believe it is a responsibility of a partner to satisfy their partner but that it is not a appropriate topic in the start of a courtship.
American men are used to women using sex as a weapon or tool to get what they want. Often when American men marry American women, the woman begins to withhold sex and uses it to manipulate their husband. Some men might be trying to see if you will be like this. They are scared you will have no interest in sex. If you ease their worry I believe they will start discussing more appropriate topics.
I hope this helps, I know the translator is bad.
Good luck...
ABSTRACT: I believe men talk about sex because they are trying to see if the girl will be interested in sexually satisfying them. It is primal instinct for man to think of sex early in courtship. ADVICE: Ease their worry but do not give them too much talk about sex, simply acknowledge the importance of sex in a committed relationship. OBSERVE how they respond, if they continue to obsess about sex, move on. If they show interest in the topic you then bring up, smile!