We spoke for many hrs. on Skype before I visited her about almost all and everything so I knew about her background and hobbies etc. I think maybe there was just not the physical attraction or romantic feeling present from her side towards me. I don't really know. I just know that women being silent on a first date is a complete killer for ME... Unless you're watching a movie, at a concert, holding hands or staring at the stars together... Being numb and silent means you're not interested and it is a waste of time being with that person. In that case I would rather have the person tell me straight up that she is not interested since I am a VERY open-minded person and I will never wrap things up to make them sound nicer than they are. Why postpone the fact that she was not interested, why be "fake" and just pretend she is enjoying your company when she would rather be elsewhere? This acting actually hurts more than being honest and telling the truth...