Did you really think that women were ruling you out because you're from Italy. Most women have some fascination with Italy, whether they want to live their own Roman holiday or just imagine living some grand life in the fashion capital or living among the Tuscan sun, being a Euro in a stable safe country is at worst a push but generally an overwhelming positive so if we remove that as a reason what is left? Something you're putting out there isn't appealing. There is a saying like attracts like. People of value find other people of value, while low value individuals may seek higher value individuals that interest is rarely reciprocated...there are always outliers but by and large people gravitate to people like themselves, in looks achievement age or some mix there of. Looking abroad doesn't make that any less true. If you can't find what you are looking for in your country, don't expect that to change dramatically abroad either.