I don't personally like the idea of discussing intimate matters til I've met someone and know that we have chemistry that is trending in that direction but I've never had a relationship online before that hasn't materialized into a meeting rather quickly. Maybe this becomes a necessity after enough time of talking and not having met, I can't say as I don't have that experience so I don't pretend to be an authority on that...even in that instance a week seems quick but I guess it depends on the tone of the conversations being had. I'm not sure what his being a doctor had to do with anything, a guy is a guy whether he went to school for a few years more or not, like it is more acceptable or expected for a laborer to be aggressive because he didn't go to college or earns less? but I digress... You have to understand what it is to be a guy, there is no play book as to when to do things, you read the cues and adjust. Sometimes you don't read the clues right and proceed too slowly or too quickly but usually a woman lets you know and you adjust, the key is to escalate at a rate that is respectable and that you can bounce back from if you are wrong. IE on a date if you instigate a hand touch and she recoils you know okay we are not there yet but that likely isn't going to get you slapped and have the date over but if you go for her chest you're probably not going to recover if she rejects lol. A guy who wants a real relationship and values the woman he's talking to will err on the side of not offending... if a guy is escalating that fast he's clearly telling you what he thinks of you and what his goal is and it's up to you as to whether you accept what he's showed you about himself or to make excuses for it...the women who make excuses for it are the types that come back here months later complaining about bad dates and how the guy wasn't like he was in their messages when he probably was. Kiss in itself I wouldn't read as overly intimate, but I have had conversations here where it seemed like we were talking in a platonic manner and then she throws in the kiss and that for me is a small sign that I can ask her more personal questions rather than stay on neutral safe topics, it just says okay she thinks of me more than just a platonic friend I can build off this... I wouldn't leap to send me a pic of the panties you're wearing right now