Don't be willing to accept a child as part of the deal to get a younger woman if you're not ready to be a committed involved parent. This isn't a business arrangement, or something you get to try for a while and you can easily remove yourself from.Your decision affects lives and you need to ask yourself if you're doing it because you're ready for a family or just believe that a woman who may have potentially felt out of your reach feels suddenly in it because of her children. If you weren't willing to do it in your own country keep the same criteria in play.