In the end, what do you want ? Near a loved one or partner with a particular set ? Everyone has potential to be a loved one BUT not everyone has the potential to be the right people in the required areas. Most important is a persons loyalty and personality and charisma but beauty plays a part. If beauty didnt play a part why do so many girls invest so much time and effort in themselves when from slavic country’s? In England its not to such a high standard. Its also not possible to message everyone with a view to a relationship so right or wrong we all tend to be very selective. This is human nature?