I know Ben and id not actualy say he’s arrogant but i would say hes observant of things ive never known a man of 48 get asked by so many girls like you have about having a mutual interest relationship add the fact you managed to live in london with a english language level of 1 is amazing and speaking turkish at 5 makes you very unique especially being an atheist ive never met a turkish fluent speaker living in england whos not muslim how fascinating