Quote(translated by yandex): "... house in the mortgage . So the other day telling me that her husband left her , ... . And now her head around , how to pay the mortgage , like for a sick daughter to look after one . ..."

Does this mean that all the time before the separation he used to pay the mortgage installments and besides, his money was always welcome for any expenses, wasn't it?
House for her - permission for him. And still a bad man ?