Doug, you're a bad psychologist. 
You do not know my life. Because you do not get the correct information.  

I look forward to meeting in real life.  You will see and make sure that forum girls do not give you the correct information.   
Doug, I was born in the Soviet Union and stay alive and thriving in wild times. Can I let the girls on forum deceive me?    
You can write to various women. I'll wait)