At first I wanted to write that I am against any violence in any form, and any forms! This phenomenon is very familiar to me in real life, my parents, and now my friends and neighbors.My mother and father were very beautiful couple, both energetic, intelligent, hard-working, but ... My father was very very jealous and often beat my mam.Feeled him and tides of violence and we-my brother and I felt it in full on ourselves.Only years later, I understand, my mother knew very well what he is, but it also provoked him- flirting with men, sometimes in secret with her friends went to the dance and arranged a feast, the consequences in advance well-known.I not want to offend women - is gentle creatures, they are our mothers, sisters, girlfriends, but now I see how many of them behave - drunkenness , lovers, money, by any means, homework - sometimes hysterical, the children in the background, many women provoke their behavior and cause a man to such behavior. Affects women, but children are more affected by watching and becoming a member of a family dram.Much police visits, the tears of children, as far as I can see living side by side, they have this sado-masochism has become commonplace, and the fear of life-changing, because the problems with housing, do not get money from her husband, not to have sex, have a greater fear for the health and the lives of their children and their life.This is ,of course, some part of the mass of the cases, and there are lots of human defects, mental illness and addiction, what the real causes of violence . But I discovered you, what I see and what I know.