I feel great about Americans, taking into consideration that I was in USA during the school English study student exchange programme when they sent me to USA for a little but very special and memorable time..it's been a few years now - I was about 13 years old than, but I am already 34 now.. First time it was New Jersey, Metuchen, and second time it was Ohio, the city of Toledo..the memories of my host families are most precious! Yet I don't understand one thing now...some letters with Americans very quickly 'reach' the question 'So when are you coming over to me in US than?'...which seems weird because I state in the very beginning that I am not looking for travel time-spending leisure activities, FUN or entertainment, nor do I want to be a 'free delivery' call girl, but interested in marriage, and if a man really wants me with him he would travel and make the photos that prove we have been together and will help make it all so much easier for my immigration to him after his visit. I would prefer to see my potential husband face to face on my territory first, meet on my own turf - destiny favours the BRAVE...besides the common concept of romantic courtship and chivalry, interrelated with this step. But it is not so much even that thing that shocks me in this question...as the very fact of him, knowing, being very well aware that travel visa is difficult to obtain, and still asking first thing, in the second (!!) letter: 'When would you like to come to the US?'...with a 'smile' attached to it. It looks almost like a sarcastic mockery, taken that the suitor knows the real situation with visas....