Hello,
why else would be more complicated or difficult if it was the man who left his country to join that of the woman he wants to share his life?
Be it emotionally, professionally or socially uprooted and integration are the same register, leave his family, his friends, his job is not easy for one as for the other.
It is a matter of a couple of choices that must be posed and maturely with all its parameters should be discussed together bearing in mind the implications and consequences that this entails.
I think it's one or the other who leaves his country to join that of her new boyfriend / girlfriend, it is primarily because the relationship they have developed is honest and sincere and that choice is in the direction of the man for whom the "stress" due to the change are least disruptive.
But you seem to finally be "stayed in the female mindset" all thy installed in Russia?
Can you explquer what you have done, what soont the steps you have done, what difficulties you have encountered?

Bye.