Surely both wings! Maybe you and those who agreed with you did not pay attention to what they read, especially the last paragraph.
Who among us does not wish to be happy beside the spouse!
To love and to be loved ... But in the world many live of appearances, they give love and receive only gratitude, they are unhappy!
How many husbands seem to treat a wife as a mother, they like care, dedication, attention, clean clothes, food ready, but they do not love their wives and for not loving often betray them.
You answered the question asking me, now I ask you another question.
What is more important to have love or have money?
Certainly some will respond that they prefer to have money! Do you know why?
Because they do not know the concept of love, they believe that money buys everything, even happiness, they are naive and when they discover the hole they dug, it may be late, they lead an unhappy life! Just like that!