Yuliya, most guys are wired differently then a woman and to have them open up about themselves and what makes them tick is very hard. Now if you ask them about sports, hunting, cars or even about their hobbies they will talk your ear off, so I would say the best way to find out about a guy is to talk with him in chat and ask one question at a time. Now most women would say "WHY" and that is because men are always thinking of two things at once and not focusing on just that one question. So if you ask just one and wait for the answer a man will not be able to get his train of thought muddied up with non important information. Now a lot of people may say this is not right but I will bet you that you will get more useful information about the guy. Now guys when we are approached this way listen and then respond and then ask your question to the young lady, and guys listen to what they are saying because they are opening up their heart and soul to you and we should do the same. Communication is a very important aspect of any relationship as it is in life.